My anxiety over the next 3 weeks higher than I would have
liked it. I struggled to find information on what the expander removal would be
like, there’s just not a lot of great resources on the internet. I am a member
of a Facebook group for called “adult non-surgical palate expansion”, which
includes the MSE (maxillary skeletal expansion) that I have, the ALF, AGGA,
FAGGA, DNA and others, but I am the only person of the nearly 500 members who
has had an MSE. I have read a blog and watch the vlogs of a guy who does have
the MSE, but he and I had it installed about the same time. Doctors are not
aware of its existence and not enough are being trained to provide them. This
is a group with members from all over the world and people are struggling to
find options in their parts of the world. I spoke with one woman on the phone for
nearly an hour who lives in Paris and plans fly to Philly and meet with my
ortho. The last of resources and knowledge are scary and frustrating.
I was able to find one video on the MSE being removed. I
watched it several times, but it just made me worry more about any pain as the
doctor spent 6 minutes preparing the screws to be removed and then to remove
them and the patient had no anesthesia. The day before my appt, my anxiety
peaked, and I called my mom in tears. I think I was burned out from work and so
many doctors appts and missing time at work (and clients and money) and this
appt was the icing on the cake.
The morning of the appt, I drove the nearly 2 hours to
Philly. When I arrived, I nearly panicked, I went to my ortho’s other location,
not the location she was at that day and the offices are nearly 30 minutes
apart. Talk about subconscious self-sabotage! I was worried that they wouldn’t
be able to see me, but thankfully, they were able to see me still.
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| Dental bonding covering my expander |
They changed both my top and bottom wires and repositioned a
bracket on my front tooth, which is rather uncomfortable to have removed as
they are bonded on the tooth, so you bite down on a rubbery chewy thing and
they pop the bracket off with pliers.
This was a good break in my appointment, so I then met with
the media team to give my testimonial. It was much more in-depth than I
anticipated. I walked into the room where the 3 guys had set up and it looked
like a tv studio with 2 chairs, a video camera aimed directly in front of one
chair, several other cameras on tripods and those tall boxy lights that create
that natural, soft lighting. Peter introduced himself and said that he’d interview
me, but that it would really just be a conversation. I got a microphone clipped
to my shirt collar; they tested the lighting and we got started.
Dr. E provided Peter with the timeline of the dental work
that I had given them during my initial consultation so he would know what questions
to ask me. We talked about problems I have breathing, what I’ve had done to try
and correct it thus far, what worked, what didn’t and a lot about how this has
all impacted my life, my marriage, my career, and me personally. Whoa. This was
getting deep. I then discussed how I learned of Dr. E, what she has been doing
to help me and what is means for me.
The whole thing probably lasted about 15-20 minutes. Peter
and I chatted a bit afterwards about my specialties as a therapist and I
learned that this is a passion of his…helping to empower patients who haven’t
had positive experiences with various
treatments and allow them to share their story of how it impacted them. It helps to educations doctors and other patients. Very cool concept!
treatments and allow them to share their story of how it impacted them. It helps to educations doctors and other patients. Very cool concept!
Back in the dental chair, I got 2 hooks bonded to the
backside of my premolars. These hooks were then connected to the expander which
was completely covered with bonding and cured. Dr. E came over periodically throughout
this process to assess the progress. She then came over with my new sleep mask,
a facemask, an extra-oral protraction headgear device, to be exact. Siiiiigh. I got to pick out which color mask and storage bag I wanted and I was shown how to wear it.
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| Me with my new facemask |
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| Elastics to hold on the facemask |
Here is a video illustrating what we hope the protraction facemask will do for me. In the video, it does show a slightly different facemask, but same idea. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wn9COVA4ItI
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| Expander elastics hooked onto my metal band on my molar |
The appointment that day was much longer than I had expected,
and I had to call work to cancel 2 clients. More lost money.
That following Tuesday, my dentist office called and canceled
my tongue tie release surgery that had been scheduled for that afternoon. Too
late to fill those slots with clients and further lost wages. I was able to get
to yoga and run a few errands without the after-work crowds though, that was
nice. Hopefully that will get rescheduled soon and then the only other appointment
coming up is the ortho again, just before Christmas.




Just read every post. Super informative and interesting. Thank you so much for sharing everything! Looking forward to more updates. :)
ReplyDeleteYou paid $850 for that face mask? Did I read that correctly? That's downright unethical. I've seen similar face mask designs on eBay for $20 and I've seen better designs that do not put force on the mandible (i.e. Crane) in the $450 range.
ReplyDeleteSo they had you start wearing a face mask towards the end of your treatment? That seems odd. Protractive headgear is most effective in the beginning/middle of treatments, as the splitting of the midpalatal suture allows for extra movement of the bone.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, at what angle was it pulling your maxilla? I met with an Ortho who said the force must follow the occlusal plane but I should think a slightly upwards force instead is ideal.